Thanks for the update. I would also like the address, if possible.

I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you both and your family.

Thanks Nephy for posting those beautiful words. Hugs to T and K, some of the best people on earth.

I have gotten a request out for the address. I will pm it as soon as I hear something.

I have the address and details-please PM me for the info.

Finally sleeping peacefully- she was in pain- they now have her on stronger and more effective meds and relieved the pain and now she is finally sleeping. She comes to every now and then and then goes back to sleep.

They took special things from the house- Christmas stuff was still up they brought it to the hospice- she loves Christmas carols- they played a favorite CD for her, Clay Aiken, and every now and then she will wake up and sing along for a moment.

They are working hard to keep her calm and happy- it’s a difficult road right now. They even brought her dresses from home so she feels like she is home- and home is where she is happiest.

T is clearly going through a very hard time- keep her and K and their family in your thoughts and prayers.

One more thing-

Right now they are ok-hospice is keeping them fairly comfortable and fed.

They will need support when they get home-maybe some prepared meals? Certainly keep in touch- there will be times when she needs comfort and company and other times to be alone. Maybe invites to dinner so they can get out of the house? Get away- a day at the park.

Invites out would be great-dinner, over for a movie- something to get them out of the house. Don't need to spend money- they just need support.

:( I wish I could be there-

Neph... You're a dear to keep us informed.

Hugs to you!

I'm so glad I can-I'm in tears at work as we are talking right now.

I expect all of you to give her hugs from me when she gets home since I won't be there for a while.

:(

Ok- edited to add one more update:

Hospice staff has told them that this process is going to take another day or so. This is going to be the hardest part- at least as far as I can imagine. :(

I also have T's dad's name and address if you want to send things to the house after...:( oh god....I just mean if you can't get things to the hospice I can give you the address to send things to the house. I also have T&K's address if you want to send things there.

Ok.....

Thank you so much for keeping us informed, Nephy. My thoughts and prayers are continually with their family. We are definitely on-board to support in any way possible when we get back - but we know that in times of grief it sometimes requires others to be flexible and understanding of the family's needs - it's hard to pinpoint just how someone will feel at any given time, but we are definitely here to give our arms, our ears, and our love to our friends, however they need it.