Bleh -

Jazzman - so sorry to hear that for your co-workers and for yourself, even if you don't feel as affected.

Kevy - I'm with GC above.

GusGus - ditto the above.

What Erica said.

My VD was quiet until the ex started flexing custody-muscle* telling me I couldn't take the kid to visit my dying Dad. Oh, but he can miss school when YOU take him to Disneyland? People who think my ex is a saint abound (it's his carefully-crafted veneer) but there's a REASON we're divorced. Oh, yeah, he ruined the day, which was the point...:mad:

I will take him to COURT if I need to, stupid control freak. My Dad deserves to see his only grand-kid one last time, even if it means missing two lousy days of school.

Oh, and I've been hearing reports from the kid that whenever he misbehaves the new threat is always "you won't get to visit Mom." I LOVED his response: "isn't that illegal?" Smart boy!

Anyway, back to VD. Hope GG is okay...and hugs to everyone else that got strife along with the flowers and chocolate (or instead of).

* on the custody issue: I made a mistake. Rather than have a horrible fight, again, I caved. Believe me, I've been paying the price for that ever since. Non-custodial moms are viewed as pond-scum (abandoners, selfish, barely-even-human females), and "single-parent" dads don't have turds that have any odour. This I know NOW. But besides what it did for our respective social standings, what upsets me is the terrible stuff that he's put into the kid's head. For that, I will suffer forever.

Hang in there you two. Remember the overwhelming percentage of cysts are benign. The waiting should be the hardest part of this...

Oh damn Kevy, you win. I'm so sorry. I'm sure it will all turn out fine and be nothing bad but I'm sorry you have to have the stress in the meantime. If this happened to us I know I'd be crawling up the walls. Good luck. I'll send out positive waves to you guys.

Intellectually, I know it is not going to be a problem. I always stress the worst at the unknown point. Once I know (even if it is worst case), then I can deal with reality.


What a strange thread to have brought this up in!

The calcium deposit is probably something more to watch for in the future than a cyst. Either way, this is why women have mamograms. They usually catch something (if there is anything) early on and it gets delt with before it becomes a bigger issue. Early detection is key. Remember, I'm still around to grace you all with my presence. ;)

Please call me, either one of you, if you want to talk.

I'm having a hard time reading these posts with VD in them without thinking of this:

VD

Sorry.;)

I had a pretty good VD *snicker* last night. I made a great dinner, and our daughter joined us. My better half loved the locket I gave her.