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GD, you could always put your regulars on auto-pay.
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Or just transfer funds to their PayPal account on your cell phone, which they can verify on their cell phone.
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I've begun a non-profit to distribute Square dongles (I happen to know their payments processor) to the homeless.
As soon as they all get iPads they'll be good to go. |
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Even before that, problems arose just from the propensity of all cash to be in the form of (ATM-dispensed) twenty dollar bills. In fact, one local beach town (Redondo or Hermosa i believe) installed change machines on the streets just so people could exchange their 20's for smaller bills to give to beggars. Personally, something has to hit me about a particular beggar. It's not whether they have a cool sign, or an entertaining bit, or even whether they look particularly pathetic. It's really indefinable. And I'd say it rarely happens. When I'm out of town, however, I tend to give more freely. I guess since I'm pumping up the local economy in ways I never do at home, I feel it's only fair to spread it around to the lower rungs as well. (If there's bad weather where I find myself, and beggars abound *cough*sanfrancisco*cough*, I am pretty damn generous with my cash). But at home, not only am I more stingy - I rarely carry more than a few dollars in cash at all. Oh, and it will never leave me that - back in the day - my panhandler friends in Hollywood took home more money than I did from my full-time record store job. So my default position on beggars is NO. |
I don't carry cash on me when I'm walking dogs and that's when I mostly get hit up. However, I seem to carry around a lot of cash in general since I get paid cash often or get cash tips and don't make it to the CU very often.
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Given money once or twice; once was a couple who needed cash for gas; they claimed the guy's wallet had been stolen. But on giving them the $.75 that was in my pocket, they went to the gas pump so I felt ok about that one.
Had guys walk up to me and start talking, and that ends in a plea for money. No. sorry. Don't invade my space. Offered to buy a guy a burger (he was begging outside of a fast food place) and he asked if he couldn't just have the money. Still not sure if that was the right choice or not but I was annoyed somehow. Not sure if I had a right to be or not. I'll sometimes toss a dollar in an entertainer's bucket. Especially if they're any good. Third Street's good for that. |
I used to only give when traveling on the premise that it would keep the homeless abroad. I hate being approached in drive throughs & store fronts so never give in those situations. The long stories bore me, and I never believe them. If someone were honest and said they wanted to spend the money on beer and pussy, I'd probably support their cause - any reference to God and I shut down though.
Street musicians and entertainers are a different sort to me, I see busking as a job and support it accordingly. |
Word of the day: busking
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Yeah, I only give to street musicians. If they are adding pleasantly to the atmosphere, I think they earned it. There's a rotating cast of guitar, steel drum, and keyboard players at our farmer's market, and I nearly always pay them. It just wouldn't be as fun there without live music.
I don't give to panhandlers simply because I don't think it helps them at all. As you guys say, sometimes one will appeal to me for some unknown reason, but that's very rare. Sure, they would be happy for a minute or an evening, but I think it's enabling. Giving money to causes that work on homelessness itself is ten times as useful. Better yet, support public policies that help provide mental health services for everyone! |
On the macro scale - I tend to not give to organizations that help the homeless, rather I tend to donate to those charitable organizations that my friends belong to or support. Most of my charitable giving is directed to arts & culture non-profits.
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