Ya know. people don't even know when the Hubster and I fight...and we've been married 22 years. No ones business. And, on that same token, no one else's problem.

I agree with everyones advice. Some of it applies to different situations at different times.

Not Afraid, yes, I think yours is mine {especially at this point in my life} most often combined with Prudence's comment about the husband. I've had to roll my eyes many times when he gave in to situations. Grr.

But, the scenario of the wife continually calling would happen. If it were that type of woman. Why do some people love that drama? Their poor kids.

I am glad you have a positive attitude about this. You and your husband sound cool with it but my opinion is you shouldn't have to deal with it at all.

They need to grow up.