Morrigoon has a point about too many specific options. Just a general conversation of what they expect should reveal what you need to know about shyness issues. You can also ask them to describe general styles they like, and give them examples like "sophisticated drama" or "playful quirkiness" or "fast paced modern" and you can make decisions on angles, close ups, etc from there. I do like the idea of asking them how much b/w they want.

I know you guys did a lot of your own stuff for the wedding so I figured I'd share how we dealt with outside people. All the wedding people we used dealt the same way with us, from the band to the cake artist to the photographer to the rabbi. For each of these people we sat down and had full-on interviews where we bared our feelings on each aspect. They all asked the same basic questions:

• What do you want to get out of my services?
• Here's what I usually do/I recommend/is commonly requested - what do you think?
• (if we seemed indecisive or unsure) Here's are other ways I've done it for special requests - what do you think?
• Are there any special considerations I need to know of?

An interview gets across what they want and you can demonstrate that you understand. Offering options to couples isn't an exception - it's the rule.

Everthing else you say sounds great, and the video looks fantastic! :snap: