We have friends that are a married couple and they went to separate bed(room)s and found that their sleeping improved dramatically.

They were shy about letting it be known because they thought it made them look loveless but when they said it a bunch of other friends replied that they'd done similar.

I might have to be traveling for work 4 weeks in a row in January/February. Grrr.

On the other hand, I have trouble sleeping when Jen is not with me.

Or if the pillows are wrong, or if there aren't enough (or too many) blankets, or if the cat under the covers is too far over on my side, or if I saw a spider any time in the last three hours before going to bed. Hmm, I have issues.

Plus the whole "sneaking in after midnight" thing would be kind of cool....

Same for me.




Well, to clarify, I don't sleep as well when Susan (my wife) is not in bed with me. I am not sure how well I would sleep with Jen in bed with me.

How does Greg feel about that?

He understands.

I wouldn't say I have trouble sleeping. Other than an occasional single night where I just can't get to sleep I've proven I can sleep anywhere anywhen under pretty much any conditions. Back in college our room was the eternal party room because me and my roommate, if we got tired would just crawl under our desks and go to sleep.

But I much prefer Lani there than not.

But so do our friends, they much prefer the idea of it, but in reality they just have vastly different needs for good sleep (temperature, light, covers, etc.). I think it's good that they realized it.

And, apparently, there is plenty of sneaking over in the middle of the night. They just get to relive their youth. When it is over you kick him/her out.

I just realized how close this thread is to its 25,000th post!

We need to plan a party! ;)