STC makes the most important point. Don't inadvertently cause him to be ashamed of the act. The repercussions of that could last a long long time. I remember things that were said to me (in a more hurtful vein), by my stepfather, and I think I carried them with my self image for far too long, in such tiny subtle ways bearing some sort of imaginary shame... Wow.

Choose (your words) wisely. I'm sure it'll all be just fine. :)

Hmmm, I started at about age 8 also. Let's see. Sac Town and € were late starters; Gemini Cricket and I were early starters. Hmmmm.


Might as well have David break the news to the kid that he's gay.

I got a very early start too.

Hmm, we may be on to something...

Let's ask NirvanaMan! ;)

Grrr Always late to the party

12, first time, first results

You went for the GOLD, man!

It was a stellar day, as I recall ;)

I have no recollection of when I first did, but that was probably supplanted by the memories of actual sex when I was 14.

Why remember the hand when you can remember the real thing.

Hand?