Anyone got some wine and a waterbed? :eek:

I got a video camera

I'm a vote for the grey scale, and I really think it's a highly personalized scale.

If there were no societal constraints, I think that scale may be a lot less personalized, and sexuality a lot more fluid than it sometimes seems to be.

As for my own personal attractions, I like roosters more than meow-meows. And when I find myself fancying a bit of the meow-meow-meow she's usually a boyish looking punk chick. Or quite the opposite, an opulent, fleshy odalesque type. Burlesque fetish, I guess. I've also found myself attracted to transgendered women. Women who have become men. I find whatever 'mones they're giving off to be a strangely honey-esque comfort. Perhpas it's the attraction to the outward male appearance, but there's something about a woman's company that often puts me at ease, so...nice mix, I guess.

But that's just attraction. I'm easily attracted. I've got broad tastes and interests and I like all kinds of kind...to a point. But I definitely prefer men. And if I fell in love with a woman (which happened once before when I was seventeen and never went very far; I was much too timid), I think I'd still crave a man's company. I'm pretty sure I'd leave her eventually, which just seems unkind to do if you know that going in.

But I do find that when it comes down to a lot of touch, it's really the touch that matters, and not the form of the person I'm touching.

Then again, I'm the first to admit that I really do like a pleasant ****-a-doodle-doo-ing. It's in me to make that a priority. Ah, well.

This exchange, and your signature, is now amusing me.

Heh.

Oh my lord, but did I ever get caught checking out the wrong transgendered women in line for the Matterhorn last night. OMG, I wish I could say more about this bizarro encounter, but in this case I must stick to the dictum of what happens on the Matterhorn stays on the Matterhorn.

I'll respect your quiet tongue, but I'm not liking it.

So it's a date then? ;)

Well, my first girlfriend was a lesbian...

I never really saw myself having a long-term relationship with a woman. But I don't know what really drives my preference -- if it's because I'm internally wired to prefer men, or because it's socially easier/expected for me to be married to a guy.

I had the only serious crush I ever had on a woman while I was in my 30s and unhappily married. Nothing happened, but the creepy thing is, I realized recently that the woman LOOKED like me, ACTED like me, had the same INTERESTS as me...

So instead of being a trip around the desire scale...it looks like I had a brief erotic obsession with...MYSELF! :rolleyes:

Hm. That's probably the most intimate thing I've ever trucked out onto the information superhighway. But also self-deprecatingly funny. Okay.

Heehee. Actually, the women that I have found myself attracted to have basically the same physique as me. Interesting, that.