Thanks for updating us, T. I understand the horrible situation very well and there's no easy way out of it. You Dad has to have hope - even if it's the tiniest thread but the reality of the situation seems so grim that is difficult to face that reality. Everyone has said such wise things. You have to be strong, but also remember to take some time for yourself and let those feelings wash over you and begin to process them.

You are always in our thoughts and I hope that there is some sort of resolution or answer soon. Many hugs and lots of love to you and your family.

(((HUGS)))

All my best thoughts and hopes DP.

Oh honey I just saw this thread - I'm so sorry to hear about your mom.
You are such a strong, brave woman to be keeping on the sane path at this time -- we are all here for you no matter what happens so if you need anything, you have only to ask.

My prayers are going out to your mom, you, and your family. Hang in there, we love you!!!

I'm so sorry
 

This is so not what I was hoping for you.

I've been where you are, you know that. I hate that you are there now.

{{{biggest hugs}}}

I don't have anything profound to offer in addition to what's been said. It is a horrible situation. I concur with the suggestions to talk to your mom regardless. If she's been your confidant this long, let her be your confidant now, too. Don't let the sickness deprive her of that privilege, too.

Oh D-phile, hugs to you! You know I'm only a phone call away if you need to vent!

The Wolfpack is thinking of you all the time......We're here for you if you need us!

Be strong....it's a tough road your on, and it won't get any easier, but if anyone can withstand this life trial you can!

I just got this update from DP (via text):
Damnit, now I am crying.

Thanks Kevy.

:(