The only rules I try to go by...

Lip liner: I never had much luck with the pencils. I use a brush instead. Don't go too dark to outline and, for me, I just use the color that I am using that day to avoid too much grief.

Colors: When I was younger, I loved the out there colors {oh, the 80's were such fun!} but today I do go for more subtle natural colors. I think you and I are similar in color, Ponine, and I wouldn't go for corals, or even reds anymore. I use an Avon color called 'Twig' and try to find colors similiar to that {a brownish color}. Colors that are too pink make me look like I am trying to wear make-up and I really like to look like I didn't try too hard.

I don't use foundation, too much trouble. I do use a sunscreen every day. After that dries, I use a pressed compact. Well, if you want to use foundation, ladies, isn't it best to use a sponge to apply it? And, don't forget, seasons change the colors that we need because our skin tones change.

I used to always use a black eyeliner but then I found a grey color and I think that is much more subtle and does the job without being so bold.

Well. That's all I have to offer. Oh, and I use a subtle plum/rose colored blush. With a nice big brush is best. If you want, you can 'set' your face when you are done with loose powder.

A problem I have now that I am older is that my skin is drier and I always have to recheck myself to see if I need more lotion after applying the makeup.

Oh, and I also use brown/black mascara as opposed to black.

that's all....

But wait, Ponine, you said you went to Sephora, did you try and have one of their make up consulations? I have wanted to get one done somewhere and see what I can do to mix things up.

I have had makeup consultant after make up consultant.
I've done Mary Kay... I had the Bare M person.... the Nordstom clinique gal....


The problem is, I either have to buy everything they use, or I'm hosed.
Now, I did wonderful makeup in HS and college, but as you said, gotta love the 80's.
Any color was a go.
Stage makeup? All over it.... gloriously.

Real life? not so good.

I MUST use foundation, my skin has red splotches all over it, and is incredilby dry.
When I dont use make up people either think I have a sunburn, or that something is very very wrong. Or I get comments like... wow... you should see a dermatologist. No thanks.
Because of this, I dont really need to use blusher. I will never cover up the red.

I currently use the Bare Minerals. I am used to liquid foundation and with a sponge. But if my skin is flaking it makes it look worse.

But colors... wow.... I am horrible. I have a purple eyeliner that the clinique rep used on me, and I havent strayed except for black every once in a while.

but lipstick... I wont even pretend to know.
I pick a color that resembles x, put it on, it doesnt resemble it, its the other side of the color wheel.
its always too dark, too pink, or too orange. I do use the lip pencil, and I'm okay with that, again, color.

I do use the black mascara, brown on me would be a mistake.

If I'm going somewhere that merits the application of foundation, I use a brush. I think it works much better than a sponge.

In my case, I agree. Bare minerals doesnt work well with a sponge. ;)

I've been all about Benefit for the "fixes" lately. They make great stuff that helps with any problem areas. I also like their mascara. Lipstick (which is my staple) is always Mac.

Can't they laser it?

I am, thanks to EH1812, hooked onto the mini Japonesque eyelash curler. I must get one soon! I'd use it even without mascara. It curls perfectly, and not once was there a pinch! I'd get the big professional one at the same price, but I'm not into bulky tools for on-the-go.

Funny thing, Sephora has the same exact thing, but under the Sephora Brand, and it's more pricey than the Japonesque at Nordstrom's.

I used to get those when I was on the pill. It's a fairly common side effect for some.