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Originally Posted by Kevy Baby
(Post 122277)
Due to the death of her cousin, Susan flew out to Florida today.
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I'm sorry to hear about that. My condolances to you and Susan.
Not to mention the edition of the ugly cat furniture and the satellite installation fun!
Although, I'm considering caving in on the cat tree when I get new couches to see if they will be more likely to leave the couches alone. :rolleyes:
Well, after many years of trying, we couldn't get our son straightned out. He is 19, got kicked out of the 10th grade, dropped out of continuation school, continues with drugs, won't get a job (other than selling weed), and refused to help out around the house He has been arrested several times, and drives with out a lisence or insurance or seat belt. He broke all of our rules, and as much as we tried to talk to him about it, he continued to do so. He even let his girlfriend move in and neither paid rent or utilities.
The Landlord had enough, we kicked him out of the house. It was kick him out or move in 30 days. He has no money, no where to stay, no food. He stays in his girl friends car, or at a friends house or Motel once in a while. It rips my heart out, but he just wouldn't accept that he had to do something with his life. He refused any kind of counseling through our Doctor, and counsiling through our youth pastor at our church.
He hung out with the wrong kids (after we told him not to) in school, has become something of a White Supremist, and shave his head and got a tatoo that says DGAF (don't give a f**k).
This is not the way we are, and my daughter is 22 and in coladge full time, workin a full time job, and a part time job. She is studing to be a Homicide detective, and will be applying to become a deputy Sheriff soon. So I don't think it was the way we raised him.
Now he says we don't care about him, don't love him, and that we just wanted to get rid of him (and not the landlord, but US!) He says he did nothing wrong, and does not understand how we could just toss him out the door like that.
Tough love sucks. I just hope that some day he will come around, and understand. I also hope that he doesn't have to go to jail or get hurt (or worse) before he learns his lesson.