No my dear, YOU are the prize. :cheers:

If he's not coming back for his stuff. Throw out the sunglasses, or give yourself pleasure by bagging all his crap and leaving it either by the trash or donate it all to goodwill, if he's not coming for it. Exorcise that bad mojo from your home!

You are the prize and you have your wonderful Nick.

^^^ What she said...

Nip the "manipulation" in the bud. The power is in your court.

If she want's $hit for breakfast, then let her have $hit for breakfast.

I'd put it all out on the front lawn and then turn on the sprinklers - but that's just me.

Dude, the mechanic that looked at my car says he's got a guy who might be interested in buying it off me. We're way apart on price at the moment, but I have a feeling we could reach a deal. Can't believe I'm selling a car for less than a grand though, sheesh. I hope it works out, because it would sure save me a lot of trouble, and I hate to think of that car going to scrap. Just needs fixing up, is all.

Less than a grand is still more than donating it, but I feel your pain, it's hard to know when to cut your losses.

At 2am Monday morning I started bagging his clothes, I needed to do somethng to keep me busy. At 7am my sister came over and we hauled the bags into his POS motorhome. The only evil thing I could justify doing was making sure some of his dirty socks and undies made it into every bag of clean clothes.

I am off tomorrow so I can really get to work on the papers that I was given to fill out, find out what I need to do next.

I know one thing I really need to do, stop obessing over his cell phone records.

One step at a time my friend. I'm not that far removed from you.

Yes, I agree. Don't obesess over the records, just get him off the phone bill.

Baby steps - that's what I had to keep thinking going through all my crapola. One little step at a time.

And good for you taking the high road. Nick will see that as will the courts if you get there.

No, no. Get a large box of condoms. Put a few spoonfuls of mayonnaise in each one, and then chuck those into the bags with his clothes. :evil:

Or, go a step further, and buy some really kinky fetish porn tape and throw that in with his stuff.

If the hussy helps him unpack it, she's in for a treat. ;)