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CoasterMatt 09-08-2007 07:42 PM

Internet Lies
 
:eek: This is one twisted story...

Here's a summary provided by a friend on another board

Guy1: "Oh man, I'm having a midlife crisis. I shall invent alter ego of young marine!"
Guy1: "I found hot cute girl online who is 17, I'd hit it."
*insert flirting*
Guy1 Wife: "My husband has been pretending to be some one else, I shall warn young girl!"
Girl: "Wtfs? I shall ask some one else who knows him... Oh no, guy1 has been lieing to me. I shall get back at him with guy2!"
Guy1: "Oh no, my alter ego has collapsed and guy2 is ruining my life. They shall rue the day!"
*insert childish bull*****
*Guy1 shoots Guy2*
*Detectives go to warn girl*
Girl: "No sorry guys, I'm girl's mother, I've been screwing around with both men pretending to be my daughter."

Everyone's life is ruined, the end.

RStar 09-08-2007 09:49 PM

Wow.

Why can't we all just get along? :rolleyes:

JWBear 09-09-2007 08:49 AM

I feel like I need to take a shower after reading that.

€uroMeinke 09-09-2007 09:18 AM

Read this in the magazine when it cam out and found it fascinating. That someone making up an online life would somehow not think that the person on the other end might be doing the same thing truly boggled my mind.

It does make me wonder more about the social implications of people leading multiple lives, their real life as well as a virtual life in chat rooms, worlds of warcraft, second life, etc. - ultimately they all do have some existence and impact in real life. I guess it just underscores the fact that reality (at least in how it impacts someone) tends to exist more in one's perceptions than actual facts.

BarTopDancer 09-09-2007 09:21 AM

That made me tired.

RStar 09-09-2007 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by €uroMeinke (Post 160999)
Read this in the magazine when it cam out and found it fascinating. That someone making up an online life would somehow not think that the person on the other end might be doing the same thing truly boggled my mind.

It does make me wonder more about the social implications of people leading multiple lives, their real life as well as a virtual life in chat rooms, worlds of warcraft, second life, etc. - ultimately they all do have some existence and impact in real life. I guess it just underscores the fact that reality (at least in how it impacts someone) tends to exist more in one's perceptions than actual facts.

For what it's worth, I'm the same in the chat rooms as I am in real life. WYSIWYG!

Mousey Girl 09-09-2007 11:06 AM

That is why I no longer go near chat rooms. After being lied to by someone, 2 of us actually caught on to her lies,
we met her IRL. The lies and coverup lies she told didn't even come near the truth of who she actually was. Her online persona was partly based on her 30 year old daughter, but mostly pure fantasy. I wonder if her daughter ever found out that her mother was plastering her pictures all over the internet and trying to pass them off as her own?

3894 09-09-2007 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by €uroMeinke (Post 160999)

It does make me wonder more about the social implications of people leading multiple lives, their real life as well as a virtual life in chat rooms, worlds of warcraft, second life, etc. - ultimately they all do have some existence and impact in real life. I guess it just underscores the fact that reality (at least in how it impacts someone) tends to exist more in one's perceptions than actual facts.

I agree and btw, well put, EuroMeinke. With LoT, there's a lot more social control than most boards because many of you (most of you?) meet up IRL.

flippyshark 09-09-2007 03:39 PM

I guess I may as well 'fess up. I'm not really a 42 year-old man living in Orlando Florida. I'm actually, like, a totally hot 19 year old girl from Idaho, on foreign exchange in Latvia. I love to par-taaaay! Also, I raise chinchillas, and I won a hog calling contest when I was 12. My parents are secret agents, which I, like, totally shouldn't have told you all!

BarTopDancer 09-09-2007 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by 3894 (Post 161018)
I agree and btw, well put, EuroMeinke. With LoT, there's a lot more social control than most boards because many of you (most of you?) meet up IRL.

And we stalk those who don't want to meet us. *coughleocough*'scuse me! Must have had something caught in my throat.

3894 09-09-2007 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by BarTopDancer (Post 161026)
And we stalk those who don't want to meet us. *coughleocough*'scuse me! Must have had something caught in my throat.

Sensen?

Ah, the last time I hosted a Wisconsin Swanking. Beers + Brats + skijoring = well, you remember this lady wasn't too pleased with us.

RStar 09-09-2007 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by flippyshark (Post 161025)
I guess I may as well 'fess up. I'm not really a 42 year-old man living in Orlando Florida. I'm actually, like, a totally hot 19 year old girl from Idaho, on foreign exchange in Latvia. I love to par-taaaay! Also, I raise chinchillas, and I won a hog calling contest when I was 12. My parents are secret agents, which I, like, totally shouldn't have told you all!

:D :snap: LOL!!

alphabassettgrrl 09-10-2007 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by €uroMeinke (Post 160999)
I guess it just underscores the fact that reality (at least in how it impacts someone) tends to exist more in one's perceptions than actual facts.

It's fascinating to think how much of our "us" exists only in the minds of ourselves and other. We actually define ourselves quite heavily in relation to others, and we in turn base our expectations of them by what we ourselves expect we would do in that situation.

I try to keep a consistant "me" in my life, but not everybody is safe to do that. The upright citizen with a fetish, the housewife with a crush, among others, find it necessary to split off part of themselves. Jung tells us about the Shadow, and the Shadow must be fed or it will find a way to make itself known and you get these preachers who are hiring hookers and using dope and swindling money from the church. Anything people think will be unacceptable to their peers, they split off and either feed it in secret or hide it altogether.

On the other hand, sometimes it's surprising what people will accept. I test the limits quite a lot sometimes.

mousepod 09-11-2007 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by flippyshark (Post 161025)
I guess I may as well 'fess up. I'm not really a 42 year-old man living in Orlando Florida. I'm actually, like, a totally hot 19 year old girl from Idaho, on foreign exchange in Latvia. I love to par-taaaay! Also, I raise chinchillas, and I won a hog calling contest when I was 12. My parents are secret agents, which I, like, totally shouldn't have told you all!

I've met her IRL. It's true!

Moonliner 09-11-2007 11:55 AM

Unfortunately it's not like "normal" people who don't live in cyberspace are any better...

"Dad shoots through baby to kill mom"

Six Held In West Virginia Torture Horror

etc...

€uroMeinke 09-11-2007 09:49 PM

I came across something today about protecting privacy and the fact that in actuality technology is making our lives more an more public. In times when you lived in a small town and everyone knew your business, you could always move to a new town and start fresh. So I wonder if this is the internet's solution for people trying to escape their public lives, a virtual one where anything is possible.

CoasterMatt 09-11-2007 09:52 PM

Why is the 'Cheers' theme song stuck in my head?


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