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(((just cuz)))) Many of us have experienced something similar and the most important thing is to give yourself and your sister and the rest of you who were joyously anticipating the new little one the permission to grieve. It won't be the same as losing someone who has walked this earth but it's a death none the less. If you wonder 'what' you're grieving...other than the obvious loss of this precious addition to the family, you are grieving for the loss of a dream...of who/what that little person would have been had he/she been given the opportunity.
This loss is one of those 'grey areas' You'll have people who don't understand say stupid **** like OH it's "gods will" or "she can try again".....be strong for your sister and try not to want to pile drive those who are ignornant in their words. I'm saying a prayer for your family....
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"Sometimes Miracles Hide"
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