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Originally Posted by BarTopDancer
/sigh. For some reason I had hoped they removed their collective heads from their collective butts by now.
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I would have thought so, too. I know my uncle's head was jammed pretty far up there - but I thought my aunt had softened over this past year. It's just pretty rough when I see that my aunt is glad to get the money my grandma gives them, and glad to get the help g-ma's boyfriend gives them (fixing all their cars, plumbing problems, etc... saving them headaches and money) - yet can't even let him into their hearts for a minute, and condemn my grandma for wanting to have someone around who will spend time with her, unlike my rather ungrateful family. They only seem to come around when there's stuff to "get." (If you couldn't tell, I'm feeling a little bitter)
I may be ungracious at times, but at least my head isn't up my ass. If I don't have the time or care to spend the time with someone, then I lose my right to be a judgmental asshole. As of right now, and over the course of much of this last year, I've chosen to spend as little time with them as possible - so maybe I should stop being a judgmental asshole, too.
OK, I feel better.