Driver analogy-
Driver A
Driver B- and I am in the car with Driver B
Driver A cuts off Driver B- whether accidentally or purposefully. Driver B begins screaming profanities inside their closed car.
Driver A hears nothing, but I, as the passenger in Driver B's car, am subjected to all the abuse meant for Driver A.
Now, had I dropped spiders on Driver B, I would understand that coming my direction, but not when they are impotently screaming at Driver A who could care less.
(but thanks- I will keep posting
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