| Counseling over punishment.  
 He is obviously confused and needs help.  Not that he is 'messed up', just confused with all that is going on.
 
 I think back to when I was a little girl, we were fed a lot of things.  I remember hearing some sort of alarm {I know my husband remembers what they are called as we've discussed this before} that would go off daily.  I think in case of attack?  Something
 military.
 
 Cancers, other illnesses, wars, drive bys, school shootings....it is pretty heavy stuff for kids.  I think he was getting it out somehow.
 
 And, 18 isn't an adult.  {not that anyone questioned that}
 
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