[blueerica]

Though I don't have kids of my own, most have no idea what I'd like to do to the doctors that botched my sisters' surgery on her ear. Knowing what we know now, she should never have undergone anything, now she's deaf in one ear, and growth of the ear is stunted. She has nerve damage, and has gone through phys therapy to gain some of her smile. Unfortunately my dad and her mom didn't have their *crap* together enough to do the right thing before, during and after.

It's these reasons that I'm hesitant to have kids. I know how much I love my three (much) younger sisters. I couldn't imagine how it would be to have kids of my own.