[AllyOops!]

Aw! He said, she said, they said, we said. Isn't it just the best?

It's not just your friends, Ponine! I can honestly think of a bunch of situations where I have encountered the same thing, whether it be work, social, friends or what-have-you. Doesn't it seem like dating sometimes never moves beyond High School? It's just filled with a little less drama (not by much) and lots more sex.

I haven't noticed these discussions in a group of males, ever. Maybe they just choose not to discuss it with or around me. Mostly, my guy pals & fella coworkers are too busy talking about sex acts 24/7 to move onto anything beyond that, except maybe for discussing work. Or sports. Not one man has ever tapped me on the shoulder and tee-hee'd me about his new crush & if I could "pass it on". However, every "rule" has an exception!

I myself have never discussed who I "liked" or wanted to "date" mainly because I'm very shy and private with my life. I used to be more open, now I'm much more cautious. One of the things I love about my boyfriend was that when we met, it was strictly by meeting ourselves. I've never really had that before! We didn't work together or share the same friends. Best of all, I wasn't looking. I had decided to remain single forever and was so jaded! When I least expected it was when the magic occured.

However, you can meet your soulmate or just a fun person to date through friends or work. That happens to be the case in most situations.

I just love being a girl, and I just love men! I'm toasting to the sexes!