[RStar]

I'm feeling quite down. I'm here trying my best to raise my spirits.

Our family had another family as close freinds. They lived here in Garden Grove, Brian and Jean. They have four kids.

Brian is a contractor, and for a while did work for the city of Anaheim, and Disneyland. You know those strange structures on the median on harbour Blvd. with the green glass? He wired the power for the lights. And those red and green lights letting you know that the toll boths are open in the parking lots (Lion King mostly)- yup, he installed them.

About two years ago they moved to South Carolina. They wanted to get away from the crowds and high cost of living. Last night Brian was driving home from a job and lost controll of his truck. They found it upside down and belive he died instantly.

I don't know what to say to Jean, she's a single mom with four kids now. How can you ease the pain when someone is going through something like that. Plus I don't know how to break the news to my wife, it's been so hard on her since her mother's murder, and this is the closest death since then. I tried to call her psyc dr. but she is on vacation till the 13th.

Thanks for a place to open up and talk a bit. You guys are great!