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					Originally Posted by  BarTopDancer
					 
				 
				Don't you know? Teenagers are just mini adults now! 
			
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 I don't consider this treating them like an adult.  I had a coworker who has as his screen saver an animation of how to assemble and disassemble a pistol.  He is a gun collector and a National Guard fire arms trainer, and the kind of guy who would make a stink just to prove some sort of 1/st/2nd amendment point.  Our boss noticed it.  What our boss did NOT do was send him home for 3 days.  What he did do was talk to him and explain why it was inappropriate.  He removed the screen saver without further issue.  THAT'S treating someone like an adult.  I wish they HAD treated him like an adult, maybe he would have responded to it.
I think a 13 year old can handle having a conversation about "inappropriate" vs. "appropriate".  If after that, he continued to turn in homework with questionable drawings, then you got something.  But to suspend him like that is a massive over reaction.
Of course, I'll add the disclaimer that it's entirely possible that we are only seeing a fraction of the real story as the parents can say whatever they want to the reporters while the school, wisely, is not commenting.