This is a harsh, but excellent, article. Very thought provoking.
Interestingly, saw it referenced on a blog about non-custodial parents' rights (where he related the 10 steps to the ways the "system" works against fathers)
http://www.guardian.co.uk/usa/story/0,,2064157,00.html
I could related the 10 things to a few other things, but for now, I'll let the article stand for itself.