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My apologies erica, and perhaps I missed it, but I don't think there was anything in that thread about you and Marla planning on your own to go to Katella Deli this Saturday. Either of you could have just said so (and thank you for saying so now), and stopped this whole annoyance on my part.
Because otherwise, it looked to me like - in reaction to round 68 of Marla trumpeting the wonders of Katella Deli, I posted in the Soooo thread, 'let's go soon' and she said 'how 'bout Saturday?' No mention that was because you and her were planning on going Saturday.
So I says, 'I'm busy that day, can we pick another night?' Without knowing that you and Marla had privately planned to go on Saturday, it looked to me - again not claiming to have invented Katella Deli - that I sugggested we, as a group, finally do it. And Marla picks a night that I say right away is not good for me.
Without knowing of your previous plans, that just came off kinda rude to me.
Starting a whole new thread about it just rubbed salt in .... especially when the thread is called Saturday/Sunday plans as if we're going to choose between those two days by honest vote ... but there's NO otpion to vote for Sunday.
And Kevy, we're talking about Saturday and Sunday ... nothing to do with next weekend, when you guys have a Halloween party to go to. But rest assured, if I were planning something you and Susan wanted to attend, I would do my best to avoid planning it for a night you were otherwise engaged with a Halloween party.
This whole thing is now obviously a big misunderstanding, and I'm sure some of the perceived slights were not malicously intended. And yeah, not everyone can be available for every thing.
But I sensed a serous drop in the level of common courtesy afforded to friends, and thankfully Erica cleared up that I didn't have the whole picture.
(Still doesn't explain why a Saturday/Sunday choice poll has no options for Sunday. Freudian, perhaps?)
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