[Claire]

Originally Posted by scaeagles

So the Republicans are too involved, but the dems should be more so? So are you saying you want the government out of it, or that you want the portion of the government that disagrees with you out of it?

No. Not at all. My wish was for them (Democrats) to be a little more vocal about the inappropriateness of activity such as calling Terri Schiavo as a witness in order to block the removal of her feeding tube. And actually I think I'm okay with the Republicans spouting their "culture of life" rhetoric. It's thin and tired. I'm hoping that since the public opinion polls seem to be heavily on the side of Michael Shiavo that they'll back down a little.

Originally Posted by Prudence

And then I wonder what would happen if it was my husband with the feeding tube, and his parents insisted they wanted to keep the tube in. I can only imagine the things they would say about me. Meanwhile I think they don't know him, at least the adult him, half as well as they think they do.

Exactly the discussion my husband and I had this morning over coffee and the newspaper. We both agreed that our parents don't know the adult "us," and that we'd rather have one another in charge of life or death decisions, and that we want it in writing. Our daughter's preschool auction is next week, and we're already planning to purchase a "will-writing" package donated by a lawyer in our neighborhood. The thought of my Bill O-Reilleyesque/Rush Limbaugh lovin' father attempting to decide my fate someday is too much for both of us to bear.