Mmelytyeer, I have have tons of probs with complications from reflux this year, one of which is a worsening of difficulty swallowing. (Enter KB, stage left). I hope your problem isn't similar, but then if it isn't that makes me concerned because the very least someone should have done by now was the Heimlich.
Seriously though, if it's anything like what I've had going on, I'm empathizing in a major way.
Matt, big hugs and best wishes from the Northern contingent. I hope everything turns out okay for your family.