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Take that, and our current culture celebrates and eroticises youth, so that we now find women who've removed the very signs of their "coming of age" (AKA pubic hair) through brazillians as somehow more sexy.
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I don't think it's about looks - it's about feel. And without hair, I feel a whole lot more of what's going on down there. I personally don't see any connection between that and acting "youthful".
I think for men, the connection between women that shave and young girls is stronger, especially if the man has always had sex with hairy chicks. Then you get the whole forbidden fruit thing. And I'm sure some women shave ONLY because their men like it, and it doesn't do a thing for them.
I do agree with all you've said about mixed messages.
Like ABG I was basically aesexual until way late in my development. I had no interest in seeing anyone's bits....all I remember is comparing pubes at summer camp showers. And that was just "oh, I have more than you do" or whatever. No sensual context whatsoever.
Hey, I never found my parents' porn. Maybe that's why.
The challenge of raising a girl to not be a build-a-whore is something I'm kinda scared of.