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You know, lot's of people marry jerks - but should the legal presumption always be that the spouse might be a jerk and not really acting on the other spouses best behalf. With all the "unknowns" it seems you are left to fall back on the legal rules and procedures - and I'm not sure if they include a gaurdian jerk assessment. But this is well outside my realm of expertise.

I gave the DNR order for my father, and no one ever questioned my intentions. Still his death came long after he wanted it, after I foolishly talked him out of suicide. Such a wierd thing to regret.