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					Originally Posted by blueerica  If the dress was a big enough deal that it would be shocking, horrible, or worse, ruin any friendships, well, then screw them for being a bride-zilla, mom-zilla or whatever else. . | 
	
 I agree. But to the degree that there is any opinion that matters, the bride is the only one. Which is why I suggest asking her instead of us. 
Whether the dress is appropriate for weddings in general has nothing to do with whether this bride thinks it is appropriate for hers.