Um, sorry you feel this way.
You know, we have lots of members who are out of town, and can't make events for that reason. So just because you work on weekends does not make you some sort of pariah for being unavailable for some or most of the get-togethers that happen.
Ugh, here is it January 30, and we DID NOT have a January swanking.
Bah, the swanking season is only 3 months long, and we've blown January for the first time in LoT history.
But you know what? ... Swankings and events are NOT ALL OF WHAT THE LOT IS ABOUT. It's a tiny part of the swanky message board scene we have cultivated.
I hope you're not feeling unduly left out of events that do or do not end up happening. I'm sure plenty of people who live out of town or out of state also get pangs of 'waaaaa' when they read about fun events planned or done.
Anyways, I hope you will reconsider. We'd miss you!
Take a break, if you must. Come back if you can.
