Sorry for the stress, Goonie.
I know too much of what you're going through.
We're totally doing a drunken kareoke night soon, and cast family medical woes to the fire, hopefully in the same evening.
Hang in there, and be sure to take a few moments out for yourself, occupied with thought of the good things that are happening right now too. Any little thing that makes you happy can help wonders.
I'm here for ya!