[Prudence]

I'm generally more visually-attracted to women and personality-attracted to men -- which is probably why I might play around with women, but seek relationships with men. As a general rule I feel more comfortable around men than women, and I don't know if that's part of it. I'm not particularly a tomboy in hobbies or activities, but I would characterize my personality as leaning toward the masculine in approach. Well, that's not quite it either. If English is (simplified) a Germanic structure with a whole bunch of Romance vocabulary, my brain is a masculine structure with a slew of feminine accessories. Or something like that.

I'm pretty picky about what I consider attractive in a woman - probably the best example I can think of is Renee Zellweger in her Bridget Jones personna. (Otherwise: no thanks. I can buy toothpicks at the store, several hundred to the box.) For men: it's all about the language. Last night's lecturer might have been short, balding, and wearing a sweater vest, but he oozed wit and thus, for me, sex appeal.

Although I confess that I share a weakness for Brendan Fraser - but only in certain roles.