I put a twist on something that was said to me some time ago, and it's really helped in the public speaking department: Most people are too busy thinking about themselves to give a sh*t about me, and it's the same in reverse - so why not capitalize on that? I find that standing up and talking isn't as hard on me as I am on myself in front of the mirror.
Oddly, I don't think I've been as attractive as I am today in a long while, and that was on top of a fairly stupid/rough day. Every day since bringing this up has made me more confident in myself, and I'm not sure why. Maybe it's because I've started looking at the positives again. It was really easy to get wrapped up into what was wrong, so it's a hard mold to break.
And iSm, it's a shame that men's fashion isn't quite what women's is in the lengthening department. I am thankful that there are proportion tricks we can use to make certain things bigger, smaller, shorter and taller. That's one thing all women should be thankful for. It's out there...
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