[Disneyphile]

Ok, how can I say this -

If someone is knowingly very ill (be it mentally or physically), and the family knows this as well, then I don't really see it as selfish, because their loved ones are considered in the decision.

However, I do see it as selfish when someone doesn't consider their loved ones at all, leaving those loved ones to blame themselves for the rest of their lives, and aren't discreet or at least private about it.

Does that make sense now?

I know surviving loved ones in both scenarios.