It's not offered on a silver platter. Reportedly this guy thinks I'm cute ... but I could cherry pick plenty of photographs that would fool people into thinking so.
It doesn't matter. I want a relationship, not just hot sex (though the relationship must enable plenty of hot sex). If I were to meet someone and spark a mutual thing, only to then find out they were 19 years younger ... that would be
one thing. But I will not purposefully date someone whom I know in advance is precisely zapppop's age difference from me.