I don't begrudge people who want to have a big wedding. It is a rite of passage and deserves to be celebrated. No, it is not for everyone, but some (like me) do like the idea. Our wedding was smaller than either of us would have liked, but we did not want to keep putting off the event because of a lack of funds (which was an issue for us at that point). It was more important for us to BE married than then GETTING married part.
I also think that some people over-do it. Whether it being bridezilla mode or spending too much money (read: more than they have). There ARE creative ways to tie the knot and celebrate the occasion with family and friends without breaking the bank.
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