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Reading your comments sort of reminded me a pep talk to a team before the big game. The idea is to get everyone excited and ready to really fight and win! They pump everyone up and they're all chearing - and they hear a lot of positive talk and reinforcment. Lot's of "we ARE the best" kind of talk.

No one goes to the team before a big game and says: Now guys, I know you're worried about what will happen if you don't win. You're going to feel really bad about it and the other team is going to make you really miserable. I'm really worried that you guys aren't going to do a good enough job. Remember how you sucked in the last game? The way things are going you could suck again this time.


The power of postive thinking is a well known phrase for good reason.