Oh, Prudence.   I know yours are serious complaints but I am laughing at the way you described them. Basically, common sense common courtesy.  Etiquette is that you allow the people on the bus/elevator/etc. disembark before you attempt to board.  {why does that sound like a ride spiel?}  Now I am not so great, I did not realize this was a 'rule' but rather common sense but I was chastised about trying to board a bus when the people getting off were slower than molasses.  'No, they have to get off first'.  Well, then, Hurry up!!!
And, I have neighbors like that.   

 Grrrrr.
SusieP.~your boss is just evil.  Glad that you are looking forward to being able to get out.