Oh, Prudence. I know yours are serious complaints but I am laughing at the way you described them. Basically, common sense common courtesy. Etiquette is that you allow the people on the bus/elevator/etc. disembark before you attempt to board. {why does that sound like a ride spiel?} Now I am not so great, I did not realize this was a 'rule' but rather common sense but I was chastised about trying to board a bus when the people getting off were slower than molasses. 'No, they have to get off first'. Well, then, Hurry up!!!
And, I have neighbors like that.

Grrrrr.
SusieP.~your boss is just evil. Glad that you are looking forward to being able to get out.