It seems like Prop 8 is going to pass.
But please remember that this isn't the end of the fight. This matter will go before the courts again.
Also it's important to remember who supported 8 and fight back. Find out which hotel magnate supported the Yes campaign and never stay at any of his hotels. And avoid any support of any Mormon run business, charities... heck I don't even buy CDs by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.
Yes, some people will say that this is me being close-minded and petty. But I feel that this course of action will make the people who think we don't count, who think that our relationships are not as important as theirs take notice and realize that they are 100% wrong in this matter.
Also, think on
these people as allies. You want to send a gift to someone who has everything? Donate a gift to one of these organizations in their name. Volunteer at these organizations. Write them a thank you note. There's so much you can do.
If you're mad, do something about it.