[bewitched]

I don't live in California. I couldn't add my direct support to the "no on 8" movement. I live in Kansas where my gay friends are not even able to dream of entering into a legal marriage (or even having it recognized if the are married where it is legal). By stating this, I in no way mean to diminish the real pain felt by those of you who have been directly effected. So...

I am so sorry that bigotry and hatred carried the day. I am so sorry that so many people choose to vilify love and commitment rather than celebrating it as they should. There is so much **** in this world. Death, suffering, war...love should be celebrated, whatever its form.

My heart goes out to you. Let this be a small bump in your road to equality. When that day comes we will all, as humans, be the better for it.