Oh, Katie.

I am so, so sorry.
We share a dreadful anniversary now.
Thank you for your kind words on my sucktastic day yesterday. You did that for me while you were going through it all yourself. You're teh awesome.
I am wishing you peace right now and in the coming days. Try to keep strong and beware of any baiting from the nutty sister. Try not to engage, it will drain you that much more. I know you know this. It's just so hard to say something, anything at all, that might help.
Even when you see it coming, this is never easy. As much as it is a relief that the suffering has ended, it is still such a loss. Again, I am so sorry.
*hugging you*