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I'm not even sure what state I'll be in when I die. I'm not that settled. I've thought about my future funeral, and husband and I agree that a wake is better than a funeral, and that we'd probably like to be cremated but that's about as far as we've gotten.

I don't mind a viewing. One last chance to say good bye. I would have liked to go to my grandmother's but it wasn't possible. For my dad we didn't have anything; he was cremated. My mom got to see him and my brothers were offered a chance at the coroner's office, but that was about it. I would definitely have wanted that one last look but I didn't get to.