Having been a DJ for 20+ years, performing at several hundred weddings (I knew it was time to retire when I did the Bat-Mitzvah of the daughter of a couple whose wedding I had played many years before). While I have played many lower-key, informal weddng receptions, I have also played at some of the finer establishments in Orange County (Ritz Carlton, Marriott Newport, etc.). I can honestly say that I have never been at a wedding reception where gentlemen, other than parental units or members of the wedding party, have worn tuxedos.
Not to say that it isn't done, but I ain't seen it.
Although I have seen morons show up in flip-flops and untucked Hawaiian shirts to a formal wedding. Rude!
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