| JWBear - what do you want me to say?
 It's not my fault I can talk about my spouse. I agreed with you that you should be able to.   I voted no on 8.  I got into arguments... er discussions at work over the subject with coworkers.  I had heart to heart talks with my kids because her friends were saying Yes on 8 and I wanted her to understand what that really meant - and in the end - she actually agreed with me. (and for my 14 year old to agree with me on something - well - it feels like an accomplishment sometimes.)
 
 Would you prefer I not discuss my spouse?  I have never expressed that you shouldn't do the same.   I think you should!  And I'm sorry that people have made you feel badly about doing so.
 
 I am not society as a whole but it sure feels like you're making this double standard all my fault.
 
				__________________Nee Stell Thue
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