Not to be a downer here, but I know I would not have let my daughter go to a party she was not invited to or that I have not RSVP'd to. She's 8, though, and a girl, so maybe things work differently there.
I think it's rude to let him show up an hour before the party anyway (even if he had been invited), unless the mom called and asked him over early. Kids should not be the ones calling the shots, and especially older brothers whose job is not to invite people to his younger brothers party.
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