Well, you don't have to be you. Be whomever you'd like to be.
Being the you you're used to, and the you your mind is wired to behave like is NOT the same as being you. You don't have to be the default you. You can be the new you anytime you have the will to.
I'm not recommending that any version of you lack integrity.
But a you that believes you're not worthy of promotion simply because THEY gave you no opportunity to demonstrate that worth is a you that should be jettisoned.
imho.
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