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Raylie has decided to become the Alpha in the pack - and that pack includes the family. She may be feeling that there is currently no Alpha and she is forced to be it. A pack can only have one leader and that leader needs to be a person for you to have any control over your dog. Raylie is assuming the position of leader and is displaying her self-proclaimed Alpha behavor by starting first with the other dogs. If you don't train her out of this behavior, she will continue with her alpha behavior with the rest of the family - and it could get dangerous.
Dogs really want to please their leaders. They just have to know that YOU are the leader. They don't learn to be obedient to their leader through voice commands - so don't yell at her - but through non-verbal commands.
I'm not a fan of Cesar Milan (or the Dog Whisperer) because he's a little TOO domineering for my taste. He doesn't train through love but through being overbearing. For some dogs, this might be necessary, but most of the time, it isn't. I prefer Kathy Santo's methods.
Get a good book so you can understand dog psychology and esteem. Once you learn what motivates your dog, you can easily train her away from bad behaviors. In the meantime, feed the small dogs away from her.
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