[blueerica]

Did you have caller ID that let you know she was calling beforehand? If that was the case, I wouldn't have answered.

If the whole arguing outside your home scenario has happened before, I would probably have said he was there, and that you didn't want any trouble at your house. She seems to have a consistent MO here, and while they can do whatever they want to do, they need to be not be doing it at your home. I think it sucks that she's doing it in front of her kids, but sh!t happens. I come from that kind of home.

I guess in the end, that kind of crap doesn't belong in front of your house. It's rude, not only to you, but to your neighbors. She needs help.

So, I guess in the end, I'd go with D first, and then B second, adding that she needs to take her crap elsewhere, let things cool off, etc etc etc. There were hundreds of times I saw what happened at your house, and while I've been lucky enough not to be put into that sort of situation, I hope that I'd do what I just said I would.



Edited to add: I didn't see what happened at your house at your house... I mean, in my own situation, I've seen it happen in front of my parents' house when I was a kid. Or something to that effect. I'm not a stalker, I swear!