[Betty]

GD - at some point you just wing it. I tell my kids what I believe personally, what their grandparents believe and what others believe. Then I tell them I want them to decide what they believe.

For quite awhile Amy wanted to go to church with her friend. (a friend I didn't particularly care for I should add.) I told her if she wanted to experience church, she could go with her Grandparents. That way it was about religion and not the friend and I had some idea of what she would be getting into. She declined. (she wanted to go and hang out with friends more then learn about God and religion.)

Not too long after she decided her "friend" was a hyprocrit. Lot's of talk about God and being good but ultimately didn't practice what she preached. Now she's probably more atheistic or agnostic than not but I left things open for discussion.

What was important to me was to let her know I loved her if she believed in God or not.