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		 What Alex said makes a lot of sense.  I doubt that there's a "supposed to" for 2nd marriages, but if that's what his friend wants, then that's what his friend wants, I don't think it really matters whether it's "traditional" or not.  But it's best to be up front about the financial aspect of it and make sure everyone's on the same page. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
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